feat(fileDto, folderDto): add is_favorite + is_shared

- provide is_shared and is_favorite information in DTO, information propagated as badge/buttons per items
      regarding performances I try to be minimalis on SQL to prevent any perf regression

    - remove old set of sharedids and favoriteids (was not functionnal anymore)
    - fix date picker (no past selection) in grant
    - fix contextmenu close on /files section

examples/bench_dto_map.rs

@@ -154,6 +154,8 @@ mod before {
             etag,
             created_by: parts.created_by,
             updated_by: parts.updated_by,
+            is_favorite: false,
+            is_shared: false,
         }
     }
 
@@ -179,6 +181,8 @@ mod before {
             etag,
             created_by: folder.created_by(),
             updated_by: folder.updated_by(),
+            is_favorite: false,
+            is_shared: false,
         }
     }
 }