feat(fileDto, folderDto): add is_favorite + is_shared

- provide is_shared and is_favorite information in DTO, information propagated as badge/buttons per items
      regarding performances I try to be minimalis on SQL to prevent any perf regression

    - remove old set of sharedids and favoriteids (was not functionnal anymore)
    - fix date picker (no past selection) in grant
    - fix contextmenu close on /files section

examples/bench_nc_session.rs

@@ -111,6 +111,8 @@ fn fixture_folder() -> FolderDto {
         category: Arc::from("Folder"),
         created_by: None,
         updated_by: None,
+        is_favorite: false,
+        is_shared: false,
     }
 }