perf: round 13 — grouped-view virtualization, notification/login query narrowing, HTTP dedup, locale precompute

Benchmark-gated (BEFORE/AFTER + equivalence/safety gate per change), same
discipline as rounds 2-12. Full write-up in benches/ROUND13.md.

Shipped:
- V1 Grouped views windowed (files route + ResourceList). The grid arm was
  the last unwindowed path (trash is grouped-by-default in grid): each
  swimlane now feeds its own VirtualList, outer container a flex stack.
  vitest gate: 800-item grouped grid mounts <120 .file-item (was 800).
- Q1 get_users_by_ids drops the <=512 KiB avatar image + ui_preferences
  JSONB (notification path never reads them). 30-member fan-out 8.60 ->
  0.25 ms (34.3x), ~7.7 MB off the wire.
- Q2 Login provisioning is_empty() -> SELECT EXISTS for calendar + address
  book (every login). 0.193 -> 0.170 ms, widens with owned-row count.
- Q3 Recent-access prunes only when the upsert inserted (RETURNING xmax=0)
  — a re-access can't grow the set. 0.567 -> 0.324 ms (1.75x).
- L1 Locale supported-codes precomputed once vs rebuilt per anonymous
  request. 616 -> 17.3 ns (35.7x), 18 -> 1 allocs.
- H1 Duplicate /api TraceLayer removed (global stack already wraps it).
  1.86 -> 1.42 us/request, -6 allocs.
- H2 client_ip span field: borrow-only ClientIpDisplay vs owned String.
  187 -> 173 ns, -1 alloc.

Not shipped (discipline): the "media hooks read the blob 3x" lead was a
correctness bug, not a perf dup — the raw-path metadata/faces readers
resolve only for local+unencrypted+single-chunk blobs and silently produce
nothing otherwise. Flagged for maintainers; routing through read_blob_bytes
is a correctness fix (perf-neutral-to-negative), not a benchmark-gated
perf change.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_01BfidAJD5AHw23jtvBUNamB

src/application/services/contact_service.rs

@@ -1219,7 +1219,6 @@ impl ContactUseCase for ContactService {
 
 use crate::application::ports::user_lifecycle::{DeletionMode, LogoutReason, UserLifecycleHook};
 use crate::domain::entities::user::User;
-use crate::domain::repositories::address_book_repository::AddressBookRepository;
 use crate::infrastructure::repositories::pg::AddressBookPgRepository;
 use async_trait::async_trait;
 
@@ -1264,17 +1263,20 @@ impl DefaultAddressBookLifecycleHook {
         // Ownership-based idempotency check — same rationale as the
         // calendar hook. Any existing owned address book (auto-
         // provisioned earlier, user-created, migrated) is respected.
-        let existing = self
+        // `EXISTS` short-circuits instead of hydrating every owned
+        // address book to test emptiness, on EVERY login
+        // (benches/ROUND13.md §Q2).
+        let has_address_book = self
             .address_book_repo
-            .get_address_books_by_owner(user.id())
+            .has_owned_address_book(user.id())
             .await
             .map_err(|e| {
                 DomainError::internal_error(
                     "DefaultAddressBookHook",
-                    format!("get_address_books_by_owner: {e}"),
+                    format!("has_owned_address_book: {e}"),
                 )
             })?;
-        if !existing.is_empty() {
+        if has_address_book {
             return Ok(());
         }